Shebah Mmera

Understanding the development of the teenage brain is essential for parents because it offers valuable insights into the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral changes that adolescents experience. This knowledge can help parents better comprehend their teenagers’ decision-making processes, emotions, and behaviors, and can provide them with the tools to support their children during this critical stage … Read more

At one point I met a parent of a teenager whom I told the child was not performing well academically due to stress. The parent exclaimed and questioned why a kid would have stress. “Stress is for older people like us who have a lot on our hands; families to feed, fees to settle, and … Read more

Talking to your teenager about drugs and alcohol can be a sensitive but crucial conversation. However, before you strike that sensitive topic, as a parent you may want to know what would be the triggers to your teenager doing drugs and alcohol. It’s important to understand these factors so that you can address them proactively. … Read more

My neighbor Jane, a single mother lived with her daughter Lyn. Lyn was always moody, with her unruly mop of hair and a perpetually furrowed brow, navigated the tumultuous waters of adolescence with all the grace of a ship caught in a storm. Jane had always prided herself on her patience and understanding. But as … Read more

The social media frenzy has taken a toll on our young generation. The term “social media frenzy” refers to the intense and sometimes overwhelming engagement with social media platforms, particularly among teenagers.  Social media has greatly impacted teenagers either positively or negatively. However, the negative impacts outweigh the positive ones creating a concern to many … Read more

Teenagers often perceive communication from parents through a complex lens influenced by various factors including their developmental stage, relationship dynamics, and individual personality traits. Hence, communicating effectively with your teenager can be challenging but incredibly rewarding. While some adolescents may value open and frequent communication, viewing it as an opportunity for support, guidance, and connection, … Read more

When a child becomes rebellious, they go out of hand and as a parent, you may go shouting “My child said he wants to kill me.” It is important to deal with teenage rebellion before it goes out of hand. Teenage rebellion can stem from various factors. Understanding these factors as a parent will help … Read more

As a parent, your teenage child consistently returns home well past your agreed-upon curfew. Despite multiple discussions about the importance of punctuality and safety, the behavior persists. Concerned for your child’s well-being and understanding the potential risks associated with being out late, you decide to set a firm boundary by imposing stricter consequences for breaking … Read more

It was a quiet evening in the cozy living room when Selina noticed her son, Alvin, sitting on the couch, his face unusually solemn. Concerned, she approached him and gently asked, “Hey, sweetie, is everything okay?” Alvin hesitated for a moment before blurting out, “Mom, I… I had a bad thought. I felt like I … Read more

Withholding legal documents can have severe legal and ethical consequences, depending on the context and the specific documents involved. There are several common scenarios where parents may withhold legal documents, and each has its potential consequences. It’s essential to understand these implications to avoid any legal or ethical issues. Some of these legal documents may … Read more